We all face it.  Some of us welcome it and deal with it quickly while others of us avoid it like the plague . . . conflict. While some may see it as negative, conflict is a natural and even healthy part of our work environment. When diverse perspectives come together, creative ideas flourish. Let’s explore how we can effectively handle conflict within our teams or organizations.

The Importance of Healthy Conflict

Conflict shouldn’t be feared; rather, it should be embraced. Imagine this: If everyone around you simply nodded in agreement, you’d miss out on alternate viewpoints that could lead to innovative solutions. Imagine I am holding up a beach ball, you see one color, and I see another. Both of us are correct; we just have  a different view of the ball. Different is not bad, only different.  Our job is to embrace differences to come to understand the situation more clearly.

Balance Candor and Care

To manage conflict effectively, we must strike a balance between candor and care. Picture a seesaw—on one side, we have candor, representing our ability to speak openly and honestly about issues. On the opposite end is care, our consideration for the feelings and perspectives of others.

Let’s say you have an employee who’s not meeting expectations. You could skirt around the issue, as many do. I’ve had an encounter where a colleague spent 15 minutes dancing around the topic before finally stating that my communication needed improvement. I wondered why it took so long for him to say that directly. Some people struggle with candor out of fear of confrontation, while others might overshoot the mark being too candid.

Balancing these two components is crucial. Too much candor without care can send others “flying off” the seesaw, while too much care without candor can leave issues unresolved.

Consider All Perspectives

Next, it’s vital to consider all perspectives involved in the conflict. For instance, consider a hypothetical dispute between the sales and marketing teams. The sales team may feel that marketing isn’t generating enough leads, while marketing feels pressured to produce too quickly. In such cases, bringing in all stakeholders to discuss the issue can provide clarity.

Instead of just focusing on one side of the argument, take a step back and invite team members to share their viewpoints and listen.

The Power of Listening

Listening is an integral part of resolving conflict. As leaders, we must “zoom in” on the immediate issue while also “zooming out” to see how potential solutions may impact the organization. For example, raising prices might seem like an easy fix, but how would it affect sales, marketing, and customer relations?

In situations where your sales team is frustrated with operations due to delivery issues, facilitate a space for open dialogue. Encourage team members to share their experiences and viewpoints. This empathetic listening fosters understanding and creates a path to resolution.

Which of these areas do you need to focus on in your team discussions? Take a moment to reflect, and put your insights into action this week.  Need help thinking into your leadership?  Go here to sign up for a powerful coaching session to help you think into your leadership and grow yourself as a leader.  Let’s tackle conflict head-on and lead our teams to success.  Lead well.

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